The Congressionanl Black Caucus held their annual leadership conference last Friday at the convention center in downtown DC. As a part of the Future Focus Series, a forum entitled Sisterspeak: Reducing HIV/AIDS in the Black Community was held. Two panels alternatively spoke about the impact of AIDS in the black community and the need to keep it at the forefront of health. Moderated by journalist Linda Villarosa, the discussion was started with a panel of medical experts and health educators and succeeded by a panel of people who are infected with or affected by HIV. The lively two and a half hour discussion brought about questions that challenged participants to do more than just talk about AIDS.
The phone is an awesome tool to understand a girl, especially if that girl is a stranger to you. All you know about her is that she is hot and sexy and the best one to be your date. But, if you really want her in your life, you will have to face the situation and be the first one to break the ice. Women are just similar to a closed room that is very beautiful from inside but has a lock on it. So, if you wish to experience that inner beauty of a woman and understand her, it is very necessary for you to know the right key that can open the ‘lock’; and trust me, nothing can be better than the first phone conversation as it is your first impression that would last forever.
I started to realize the faults, lessons learned and I was ready for a change. I started writing the book as a joke with my girlfriend but then it got serious. I was really learning new lessons and thought if I was going through hiv positive dating this pain and had a hard time breaking self destructive habits like arguing being defensive control issues etc. Then there must be other women and men who are going though the same thing. I kept a journal of the things that I needed to fix and there were 19 and that’s how I came up with the number.
If you ask anyone you know who has been married for over 25 years, they will tell you that communication and compromise is why they have been married so long. During the course of their marriage, issues came up and because they had a solid foundation, they were able to deal with them together.
Most of the time, the problem is with the relationship and not necessarily with you! Men are fickle. They have a habit of not knowing what they want or flying by the seat of their pants. Since guys seem to like whatever is in front of them at the time, their opinion of what makes them happy or what they are looking for in a girl can change quickly.
If your man begins to pick fights with you over the smallest things, then that might be a sign that he is cheating. Normally, these small things do not bother him, but now they do. His response to everything is now filled with anger or agitation and you are not even sure what you did. If you ask him a question as simple as “What kind of dressing do you want on your salad?”, and his response is “Why are you always nagging me about salad dressing? All I wanted to do was come home and eat and this is what I have to deal with? You know what, I’m leaving…I’ll go out and get something!” He storms out the house and you are left standing there with a bottle of ranch in your right hand, Italian in your left and completely confused. If this is the case, you might be article a cheater.
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